I often wonder what my life would have turned out if I would have the courage to tell my folks about my transition. I came out to my counselor a few months back. She was not really of help. All she said was to go to the library and look up info there.
Oh yes, how could life look if we did this and that decades ago but with our knowledge of today...

It's hard to say, isn't it? My personal experience upon coming out was a 2-year "war" with my relatives which resulted in a cease-fire with all war parties undefeated.

The most important thing is the coming out to oneselfe - knowing what one is and what one wants, opinions of other people being of less importance. The only thing I am really regretting is my late coming on terms with my sexuality - I came out with 21, means 7 years of wasted youth!
Besides, what exactly is
srs and
ffs? I must confess I am rather ignorant on acronymes.